okay here is probally not the best place to vent off steam but im going to do it anyway!
As you will see by my last thread im full of cold feel like death (suspected man flu) well i have had a day from hell ......................
Woke up at 0430 unable top breath so got up and sorted my self out and fell asleep on the sofa to get woken up by the hubby ( nicely) at 6am.
Being told i cant go and work where i want to due to some bŁ**'1# excuse and i am being sent somewhere to work for 2 years in october i really dont want 
Forced to stay at work until the end of the day even though for most the afternoon all i have done is blow my nose and my ears sound like im under water every one has had to repeat what they are saying to me.
it now feels like its sat on my chest too which is really not good as last time i was like this it ended up a chest infection and i ended up on steriods
Tonight all the hubby has done is have a go at me my son has a routine and i asked the hubby to ask him to get out the shower so he shouted up couldnt even be arsed to get off the bloody sofa well clearly by surprise shane didnt hear him so after 5 mins i actually got up from my seat to shout up the stairs for him to get out which he did. hubby proceeded to give me greef for getting him out the shower tomorrow is a school day and its already past my boys bed time. he hasnt got of his arse to do anything tonight apart from throw a pizza in the ovan. the dishes are still spread accross the kitchen worktop cos he expects me to put them in the dishwasher.God all i ever seem to do is clean up after the pair of them for once he can bl**dy do it.
my life is pants and i know there are people out there that have got it way worse then me and i should be gratefull for what i have got but dont think he realises that we dont have magic faries come and clean hover do the washing and ironing etc etc I DO it as well as working over 40hr weeks and now im ill he hasnt even lifted a finger to help seriously 
normally i would take this all in my stride and crack on but im hormonal too 
god i hate being a bird really pisses me off
vent over
moan,moan,moan
i dont know how your bloke buts up with you,instead of moaning you should be gratefull he sticks with you.
i think you are to stressed and are just looking for someone to blame and take it out on.
the bloke was in the shower upstairs and didnt hear you shouting,with you in your weak state the volume would not have been as loud as normal and he has the water going is it any wonder he didnt hear you?
hes fed the kids and i presume they kids are happy,so okay they are a bit late going to bed but its not the end of the world calm down a bit.now if he hadnt fed them and got them to bed i could understand it more but it sounds to me you just want to moan at the poor bloke because he hasnt done it 100% right. okay he hasnt filled the dishwasher,maybe he was going to do it later,maybe he forgot or maybe he just didnt bother but come on girl its not the end of the world
okay so you do the washing is it a 4 mile walk to the river with a bar of soap? no i dont think so its opening the door of a machine and putting the clothes and soap powder in it takes 5 mins!
ironing not the most pleasant job in the world il grant you but if you wash things right,then hang them,and buy the right clothes there are less and less things you have to iron.
also you know that if he did the washing,the cleaning etc it wouldnt be right and you would moan about that then still do it yourself.
but i do feel for you and hope you get well soon.
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